I met Matthew Swope on Instagram. He started following me and I followed him back because I like what he posts.
In general I like accessories and furniture. It is likely that he also appreciates what I publish and spent some time, during the Christmas period he sent me a gift. Some of his creations.
That’s not why I decided to interview him. And if I have to be honest, I’m the one who asked him for an interview, he didn’t expect anything in return.
The reason is called kindness.
A very personal reflection of mine on kindness.
Kindness (synonym of politeness, friendliness, courtesy or amiability) is respectful and benevolent behavior, characterized by acts of generosity, consideration, assistance or concern for others without ulterior motives. Without expecting anything in return. Without reproach.
A smile, a handshake, a hug, a gift, words of encouragement… Kindness should be contagious.
Sometimes we “respond” to a kind gesture but we should be the first to be kind, it should be our attitude. Regardless of everything and everyone.
We live in times where nothing is done for nothing. Where there must always be a second purpose for everything. And so if someone gives you a gift and you respond with an interview you can fall within these "known mechanisms".
But you know what? Frankly, I don't care.
The purpose of our interviews is to tell anecdotes, curiosities and stories of life lived between individuals who are different from each other but with a common goal: the realization of a dream, of a passion. The achievement of a goal.
Enjoy the reading, with the hope that if even just one of you will draw inspiration and motivation from this interview of ours, to open the famous drawer, free your dream and fulfill yourself as a person... it will have been worth it!
Gabriella Ruggieri for 1blog4u